What do Gen-Z want? Stability or intensity?

APOLOGY & PURPOSE

Hello guys how are you all I hope you all are good healthy enjoying and especially I hope you all are happy first of all I want to sincerely apologize from my heart that I am meeting you after so many days and sharing my thoughts with you after such a long time for that I am very very sorry I know you all like my blogs I know in my blogs you always find at least one point something or the other from which even a little improvement can come into your life your sadness can reduce a little and you can get some idea because you are struggling with problems in your life I cannot say that those problems will completely end but I definitely wish that your problems reduce a little

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GEN-Z CONFUSION

Now today’s topic is what does Gen-Z actually want do they want stability or do they want intensity what do they really want see for today’s generation love and relationships have become like toys this is what many older generations say but they do not understand that today’s generation receives confusion in love and relationships in the previous generation there was no internet because of that they did not get attached instantly and they did not completely believe someone so fast but today we have mobile phones laptops every device and the biggest benefit and also the biggest problem is social media because of that today people see each other online and get attracted and start believing quickly so today’s generation does not consider love a joke today’s generation does not consider love a joke I will not say love is a joke but there is confusion in love relationships have become very toxic true love is very difficult and even bigger than love what I believe is trust because love can only happen with the person on whom you have complete faith complete belief full full belief that is love love does not mean you must always physically stay together even if you are far that is still love but today’s generation mistakes intensity for depth they think that is everything but it is not but today’s generation genuinely wants stability also they get scared of commitment but they also like freedom

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PROMISE & FREEDOM

according to me you should not make promises to anyone if you truly want freedom you can simply say that if you love me then give me some space give me some free time if the person truly loves you they will give you freedom so please do not make promises today’s generation is most trapped in this when promises were made earlier they were fulfilled but today promises are like chewing gum chew once and throw away finish your work and walk away so please do not promise everyone likes freedom but do not bind someone in promises I humbly request

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TRUST & CONNECTION

Today’s generation finds it very difficult to trust someone and why would it not because every time their trust gets broken they want connection but they are scared to trust so what is the solution the simple solution is if you trust someone you will feel peace with them if you want connection then first you must trust them second you must give them space you must understand their feelings you must understand that they also have work and they need time for earning for livelihood everyone works so you must trust but trusting is difficult and connection is also wanted if you want connection then give space give freedom let them live their own life

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ATTRACTION VS EMOTIONAL SAFETY

Now what I am going to say may be harmful attraction can happen with anyone anytime anywhere this is normal there is no shame in it attraction is important for you but not more than limit attraction is there but emotional safety matters more because attraction can happen with anyone but the one with whom you want to spend your whole life with that person you must have emotional safety imagine a garden there are many flowers of many types you will feel attraction sometimes this one sometimes that one but your favourite flower is only one similarly attraction can be with many people but your favourite flower is the one who can be your life partner your boyfriend or girlfriend but if you have courage then you must have the strength to accept that one fully as husband or wife simply meaning flowers are many beautiful but favourite is one attraction is normal but emotional safety is very important

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SPIRITUALITY VS PRACTICALITY

Being spiritual is common but practical life must also be managed devotion faith in your deity believing fully that is good but for practical life you must also be practical do not connect everything to God not everything is related to devotion some things are practical also if you remove fear and over attachment to everything life will become easier I am not saying stop devotion but be practical also

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PRESENCE

People want permanent bond in life but the most important thing is presence someone not being there physically is less important than someone being present in feeling even if the person is not with you physically their presence is there that feeling that experience that is more important than physical closeness that may also be a lesson of love because love does not depend on who is physically present at what time love’s value is in feeling presence

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GUARANTEE & REAL LOVE

In relationship choosing daily is important but remember there is no guarantee and that is why relationships have become like blank paper like shopping mall buy what you want this is not love the one who truly loves does not need guarantee they only need the experience that it is real love because even they are confused

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EGO, EMOTION & PEACE

In love ego and emotions are strong but our nervous system wants peace so remember where ego and emotion are very high maybe peace is less true love will be felt where you feel peace calmness sitting with that person full silence full calm that is love but twist is do not trust blindly based on attraction beauty that is not love love is a different passion beyond words

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DRAMA VS PEACE

Drama relationships have excitement but long term stress also where you feel stress where you feel prison where you feel no freedom that is not love leave that place immediately love should give peace not prison

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SOUL CONNECTION

People want soul connection but remain stuck in surface attraction you must go deep find roots soul connection is where you feel peace again garden example many flowers but favourite one only soul connection is one where you forget your stress anxiety depression that is your soulmate

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INTENSITY VS STABILITY

Intensity creates attraction but long term comfort and calmness give satisfaction if you keep running you will get tired if you want long term you must have patience peace

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SELF GROWTH

Self investment personal growth affect relationship self respect growth if you forget yourself in relationship you will fall true partner wants you to be self dependent financially independent

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MISTAKES & EXPERIENCE

Do not fear mistakes solve them like school mistake teacher scolds for growth life also same remove mistake from root or solve it choice is yours

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MATURITY & TRUST

With age emotional maturity grows slowly real stability is presence and trust partner may not be physically there but presence and trust works always

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STEADY CONNECTION

Connection is not loud it grows steadily deeper

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LOVE BEYOND EVERYTHING

Love is beyond truth lie rich poor color looks everything love is heavier than everything if you keep world on one side and love on other love is heavier because it has no weight it has presence trust love partner is one bodies two but soul one

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FINAL MESSAGE

Please do not break someone’s trust toxic people can satisfy desires but not give true love if trust breaks it is like thread once broken knot remains true love is peace choose one stay loyal even if life forces marriage elsewhere love remains one because love is beyond everything love is God but greater than love is trust universe returns ten times what you give whether love or hate thank you so much for reading till here I pray you find true love trust peace and stay strong thank you so much

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Peace With love  💕 

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