PAIN: WHAT IS PAIN REALLY?
Hello guys, today’s topic is Pain.
What actually is pain?
Have you ever thought about it?
Pain, sorrow, sadness — this pain is not always physical. What I mean to say is that there are some wounds that no medicine can heal.
Some wounds are not visible, but they hurt the most
Have you ever wondered why this happens?
Because these pains are not physical; they come from within. As people say, external injuries, accidents, or illnesses eventually heal, but if the wound is internal, whether it heals or not feels almost the same.
The simple meaning is this: inner wounds rarely heal — but yes, they do heal.
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The biggest fear of today’s generation
In today’s time, the biggest fear is this:
“I couldn’t find someone who is truly mine.”
According to my experience, and according to how today’s world and young generation think, the most important thing today is having a real life partner.
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Many companions, but one true life partner
During life’s journey, you meet many people — many friends, new friendships, new relationships. Many things happen.
But having one true life partner is extremely important today.
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A human being is not something you can replace
But what kind of partner are we talking about?
A human being is not a piece of clothing that you can change whenever you want — just to fulfill your desires, lust, or needs. Using someone and then leaving them is not love.
Is this what love has become?
Is this what we now call love?
No. Absolutely not.
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This is a toxic mindset
This is a toxic color, a toxic mentality — just like changing clothes. Sadly, today this behavior has become normal.
And this is the biggest reason why both men and women are ending up alone.
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True love does not look elsewhere
The day you find a true life partner, you will not look elsewhere anymore.
What I mean is this: true love sees only one person — only one. Remember this.
Bodies may be two, but the soul is one.
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If there is pain today, the story is not over yet
If you understand this today, then understand this too:
If there is pain today, it means the story is not over yet.
Pain is proof that you have not stopped feeling.
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Breaking is easy, rebuilding is hard
Remember — the one who breaks is the one who rebuilds himself again. Because breaking is easy, but joining back together is difficult.
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Not every pain is a punishment
Not every pain is a punishment. Some pains come to teach us lessons.
They can come in any form — as a person, through someone special, or in any situation.
But remember, if you have learned the lesson, try not to repeat the mistake again.
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Silent pain is also making you stronger
Silent pain is also making you stronger. This does not mean you have no one in this world.
Your true love will find you soon.
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If everything were easy, change would not exist
If everything were easy, change would never exist.
Pain tells you that somewhere inside, love still exists.
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The one who endures shines later
Remember — the one who endures shines later.
If today’s pain becomes tomorrow’s strength, that person is truly alive.
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Falling does not mean failure
The one who falls and then learns to walk again, the one who falls and still learns to feel — that person is alive.
Remember, when you fall, it does not mean you are defeated. It means you must rise again — and you will rise.
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Feeling pain means you are alive
If you feel pain today, do not be afraid. It means you are still alive.
And as long as you are alive, you will feel everything — and you will continue to feel.
You will surely find true love.
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The loudest pain is often invisible
Some pains are invisible, but they make the loudest noise.
You feel like crying, but you cannot cry openly.
Not every wound becomes a story, but every story has a wound.
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Do not run away from fear
Remember, do not run away from fear — understand it and face it.
Fear of what?
Fear that the one you trust might belong to someone else.
That is why today, understand a person the way you measure things in a market — observe, test, and then trust.
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Being alive means fighting
Today you may be broken, but tomorrow you will be strong.
Being alive does not only mean breathing — it means fighting.
And that fight is not with others; it is with yourself.
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Healing yourself is also important
I will not say stop crying, stop feeling pain, or stop feeling sorrow.
Understand it this way: when you look at yourself in the mirror, you groom yourself carefully — creams, shampoo, oil, perfume, new clothes, makeup — everything to look good externally.
Just like you decorate yourself externally, you can also heal and decorate yourself internally.
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Can you heal yourself from inside?
But you must ask yourself:
Can you heal yourself from inside?
Can you fix what is broken?
Can you search for what is missing?
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Autumn is followed by spring
Just like leaves fall in November, remember this when you see autumn — new flowers, new leaves, and greenery are about to come.
If the heart is broken, it will heal.
If someone has left, someone new will come.
If someone has gone far, someone new will come closer.
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Nothing stays the same forever
If there is sorrow, happiness will come.
If there is night, day will return with light.
If something bad happened, something good will also happen.
If you feel like crying today, a smile will also return.
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One condition for change
But all this comes with one condition:
Can you understand yourself?
Can you balance yourself?
Can you keep yourself happy?
If yes, then understand this — you have conquered yourself.
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Peace of mind is everything
The most important thing is peace of mind.
Until the mind is calm, nothing else can be calm.
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Love is the highest truth
In the end, I just want to say this — I have said this before, I don’t know if you remember it:
There is no love greater than love itself.
Love is the form of God.
Love is the truest worship.
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And yes, remember this always:
The end itself is the beginning.
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